Do I need to hear God before starting a relationship?
What’s even this God’s will people shout around?
What will hearing God do for me?
Can’t I just love someone and then marry such without hearing God?
What importance does hearing God serves to my relationship or marriage?
Is it automatic to not having problems in marriage?
KNOWING GOD’S WILL FOR MARRIAGE
When the teachers of the law came to Jesus they told Him about divorce that if it is lawful to divorce one’s wife for any reason…
Jesus response amazes me.. He said “in the beginning it was not so!”
I think it is good to see God’s idea or what Jesus means by that word “in the beginning it was not so”
If we understand what was in the beginning it will give us a good understanding of what Jesus meant and then help us from divorce
So when God made man… We saw that He knew there was a need to make a woman for the man which God said or call it “help meet”
Even though the animals in the garden were not enough to meet the need of Adam. Though they may help him around in getting some woods and all but there was something very particular they can not do..
It will shock you that when God said “I will make an help meet for Adam” what God formed was animals and then He brought them to Adam.
Now if care is not taken, some of us will think especially when God tell you. I am bringing your mate and you’ll love him.
We may quickly assume it is now, whereas God didn’t mean now, because God is not bound by time. Scriptures says a day is like a thousand years before Him and a thousand days like a year to Him.
You may want to say… Show me what God did after He said He will make an help meet for Adam..
Genesis 2:18 And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I WILL MAKE HIM AN HELP MEET FOR HIM.
Then God went into this..
2:19 And out of the ground the LORD God formed every beast of the field, and every fowl of the air; and brought them unto Adam to see what he would call them: and whatsoever Adam called every living creature, that was the name thereof.
But we saw that… Those weren’t the help meet God meant.. Because there was not found an help meet for him.
Genesis 2:20 And Adam gave names to all cattle, and to the fowl of the air, and to every beast of the field; BUT FOR ADAM THERE WAS NOT FOUND AN HELP MEET FOR HIM.
So later we saw that God formed Eve after Adam was able to define those animals God bring to him.
Now this is it. God will brings some people to your life. Some will be animals, some will be friends and some will be your life partner. You must define them correctly!!!
God made Eve and brought her to Adam… Now there is something so important here.
“In the arrangement of God for all men, there is the central role that God plays in order to bring about marriage between a man and a woman.”
Let me explain this.. Because that’s what will bring us into the topic…
GOD formed Adam and said He will make an help meet for him
GOD made Eve and then brought her to Adam
This is the map…
GOD——->Adam———–> Eve——> GOD with Eve———> Adam
At all of this God played a major role by forming Adam and at the time He had to form Eve, He Brought her to Adam knowingfully well that she can stature up or have come to a stature where Adam is to a measure.
Hearing God for Adam was easy… When God brought Eve to Adam… God didn’t say a word… But Adam because he had a fellowship with God, he knew supernaturally that Eve was his wife.
“Knowing your partner is a supernatural experience that is birthed by the inward KNOWING”
Fellowship with God is what guarantee knowing the will of God for marriage. You can’t know the right person without this factor. When God brings animals to you and you’re not patient you may choose the animal thinking that’s the man or woman God promised you.
In hearing and knowing God demands patience and we must be able to give God time and walk with His time. Hence the people that may be available to us may be animals and then we settle for less.
When we can’t wait to hear God, we believe that since the fall of Adam and Eve God does not choose life partner. God does, only that He won’t force it on you like He didn’t force Eve to Adam.
He only arranged that meeting by breaking the barrier of distance and time in their midst because God’s didn’t make Eve at the same point Adam was, but in another place in the garden…
Which means God have the ability to locate your partner by bringing them to you no matter where you are. When God brought Eve to Adam. It shows that Eve was a woman who understood the leading of God and never said to God “leave me alone!” but patiently obeyed God. You should be a woman or man that the Lord can lead without struggle.
The will of God can not be known to all men, except those that have fellowship with God.
Don’t try to use God to obtain a partner and then you try to sustain the partner by your wisdom. You’ll fail!
Hear God and keep hearing God. Not just that.. Keep responding to God!! That’s what will guarantee a good home!!!
I hope that helped you?
The Love Transformers