​The love we receive of God is a love that makes us to love one another no matter what. We learn to forbear one another. 

Ephesians  4:2 With all lowliness and meekness, with longsuffering, forbearing one another in love;

Forbearing one another is the word fore-bear: to bear the person ahead before the offense come and this can only be achieved when there is love of God in the home. 

When both husband and wife understand the place of love, they will ensure nothing comes between it. Their children will see it and love it and also feel loved. Do you know that as much as we sinned against God, even Jesus died for us still? 

Romans  5:8 But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.

Love is best shown when there is offense and love is best seen when there is no offense. So how to love your wife is to love her the way Jesus loves you even when you don’t deserve it. As humans it could be hard to forgive but just say to her that you forgive her anyhow it is. Learn to forgive. One thing couples must learn is to submit to one another. 

Ephesians  5:21  Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God.

And also learn to put your spouse first before you in all things. 

Philippians  2:2 Fulfil ye my joy, that ye be likeminded, having the same love, being of one accord, of one mind.  

2:3 Let nothing be done through strife or vainglory; but in LOWLINESS OF MIND LET EACH ESTEEM OTHER BETTER THAN THEMSELVES.

So you see when this is done. There will be love strong enough in the home. And as a matter of truth, any child of God is a love being. You know God and have God by letting the love of God in you show. 

1 John  4:7  Beloved, let us love one another: for love is of God; and every one that loveth is born of God, and knoweth God.

Conclusion 

We need to look at Jesus and the Father, the love that exist between Them. They have love that have bond Them today till today. If every home will learn that which exist between the Godhead, we will have reason  to love ourselves no matter what. 

1 Timothy  4:15 Meditate upon these things; give thyself wholly to them; that thy profiting may appear to all.