Proverbs  18:22 WHOSO FINDETH A WIFE FINDETH A GOOD THING, and obtaineth favour of the LORD.

Proverbs  19:14 House and riches are the inheritance of fathers: and A PRUDENT WIFE IS FROM THE LORD.

Many times guys have thought that they are the ones to find a wife. Some folks believe that God will not help them find a woman because God gave Eve to Adam and when he fell he blamed it up on God that it was the woman God gave him. Well I’d like to tell you that God still find a wife for people. Anyway note that the word says WHOSO FINDETH A WIFE… and not a girlfriend. But a wife. We must understand that what God finds for people is a prudent wife and not a girlfriend. The favour a man obtains from finding a wife is that he receives the answers to his request and this does not take away the favour of the Lord a man get when he allows the Lord to find a wife for him.

Lets move this way… How to find a wife is  not by Google searching or doing eye scanning, checking out for curves and beauty. Boy! I know it’s important, so calm down. I was once there. I remember going on a road from school when the Lord spoke to my heart that “you think you know a beautiful lady? If I show you one you’ll be silent” this is not the devil speaking it was the Lord. There was a conversation that brought about that in my heart with Him. I know guys have varying things they like about ladies. There are things that guys nurse in their hearts about a woman that they like to marry.  God sees that in your heart and knows your heart. I believe in a sense that God will never deny you of those things you want in a woman. A lady is much more than she appears hence she need to be discerned. If a guy can move from the physical structure and curves of a woman to look deep into the grace she carries, the better for that guy. I can testify boldly that those things will come later. When a guy can just look deep to the wife that God finds for him, he will see reasons to say once I was blind but now I can see. I’m sure God will not deny you of what you want in a woman. I’m so sure but you need to be patient. That’s the beauty of what am saying. 

So, how to find a woman is through seeking the Lord. You need to ask the Lord of that wife. I remember the day I took a bold step to just pray and be free from praying for a wife. I just decided to settle that part and it was done. You seek by asking the Lord. I’ll show you now how to find. 

Matthew  7:7 Ask, and it shall be given you; SEEK, AND YE SHALL FIND; knock, and it shall be opened unto you:  

7:8 For every one that asketh receiveth; and HE THAT SEEKETH FINDETH; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened.

7:9 Or what man is there of you, whom if his son ask bread, will he give him a stone?  
7:10 Or if he ask a fish, will he give him a serpent?  

7:11 If ye then, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your children, HOW MUCH MORE SHALL YOUR FATHER WHICH IS IN HEAVEN GIVE GOOD THINGS TO THEM THAT ASK HIM?

NOTE THE FOLLOWING 

  •  Seek and ye shall find 
  •  For EVERYONE that seeketh findeth. 
  •  How much more shall your Father which is in heaven give GOOD things to them that ask(or seek). 

So we see that we find by seeking and asking the Lord. Look at the last bullet it says God will give GOOD thing to them that ask. The Bible we read as our opening verse says whoso findeth a wife findeth a GOOD THING, so we see that God is the one that gives the good thing. See the position you need to take in other to find and get what you find. 

Psalms  84:11  For the LORD God is a sun and shield: the LORD will give grace and glory: NO GOOD THING WILL HE WITHHOLD FROM THEM THAT WALK UPRIGHTLY.

Proverbs  28:10  Whoso causeth the righteous to go astray in an evil way, he shall fall himself into his own pit: BUT THE UPRIGHT SHALL HAVE GOOD THINGS IN POSSESSION.

Psalms  34:10  The young lions do lack, and suffer hunger: BUT THEY THAT SEEK THE LORD SHALL NOT WANT (LACK) ANY GOOD THING.

So finding a wife is a good thing and you won’t lack her when you learn to find her in the field of seeking and asking the Lord of her. Remember this that 

Proverbs  19:14 House and riches are the inheritance of fathers: and A PRUDENT WIFE IS FROM THE LORD.

“To find a wife  means to find her from the Lord.”

If she is from the Lord then you need to know the Lord, seek the Lord to get her, find her in the place of prayer and also be sensitive when she is brought to you. Please I like you to note that a woman is deeper in strength than she appears and beautiful than she appears even deep in the heart. Discerning her is the only way to know and appreciate her worth. Never forget that.